The trees have been put up and beautifully decorated. There’s a gorgeous wreath hanging on just about every home’s door, welcoming family and friends with open arms. People are decked out in their favorite holiday gear (ugly Christmas sweater included) and looking to celebrate every chance they can get with decadent baked goods, lovely libations and festive music. Even though the holidays are supposed to be a splendid time of the year, it can also be a stressful one. The often dreaded gift shopping can certainly take its toll on us, and quickly turn the cheer into jeer.
For that reason, I wanted include some of my tips on how to include some yoga in your holiday shopping. It doesn’t have to be as extreme as striking your warrior II pose (Virabradrasana) in the middle of the checkout line (although this might give the people standing in line with you incentive to find another line), yoga is often times about the little, more subtler things. It can be as easy as taking a moment, changing your perspective and thus, changing your mood.
Let this be your holiday gift to you…

1. Take a deep and slow breath. One of the most important things (if not the important) to remember when you’re practicing yoga is your breath. It will help to calm you down and re-center you. I know it sounds really easy and basic, but it’s true. Just try it. The ujjayi breath can work miracles. And we’ve all heard of the Christmas miracle, right?
2. Prepare. Take a cue from Santa; make your list and check it twice. Just like you make sure to be well hydrated before practicing yoga, that you wear the proper fitting garments and arrive to class early, it’s wise to prepare yourself before you run out to those overcrowded malls. Simply take a moment to think about who you’re shopping for and what they might want. Jot down some ideas and if you come up empty handed, maybe even ask your recipient for some suggestions. By picking something from the bunch of ideas your recipient has given you, you can give them something they actually want and the element of surprise will still be there. Or, shop online. And whether you’re shopping online or offline, remember to multitask. Maybe you can buy the same gift for more than one person on your list? And if you know you’re going to be shopping for a long period of time, pack a snack and some water. Breaks are good no matter where you are – on the mat or in the mall.
3. Go with your heart, not with your mind. You might think you need to spend a certain amount on a person, or that your gift needs to be from a certain store, or that it has to meet a certain standard. But is this really the case? Give from the heart and try to envision what would make the person happy. It could be something so simple, and if it’s something you’ve put good thought into, your loved one is sure to be pleased.
4. Stop with the expectations. Just because you did a pose one way yesterday, or because you had to modify another pose last week, doesn’t mean it has to be the same way today. What you did in Christmas pasts doesn’t need to dictate what you do this year. Go with the flow, and stop putting unnecessary stress and expectations on yourself. Find a gift you you like and that you think your recipient might like, because your idea of perfect may not be realistic and may not matter.
5. Take a chance; go outside of the box. You know when you have one of those practices and you just want to go for it? Whether you’re daring to get into scissors pose (Astavakrasana), or trying something new and using a block to support yourself during balancing half moon (Ardha Chandrasana), you’re going beyond your norm and doing something different. Try doing this with your shopping and gift giving. Why not offer to babysit? Maybe you can run errands for a busy loved one for a day? Does your sister want to be a better cook? What about paying for a cooking class? Is your best friend saving for fancy vacation? How about giving frequent flyer mileage? If it doesn’t work, it’s not the end of the world. It’s one holiday, and it’s one day out of the year. You still love your family member, and I can guarantee you that your family member will still love you.
6. Practice with compassion. One of the things I’ve been working on in both my yoga practice and in life is practicing with compassion. And, I can definitely do this with my holiday shopping! So when we’ve been pushed to our limits, don’t yell at the cashier, flip off the person who takes your parking space, and raise hell when the last roll of wrapping paper is gone. Try to remember the tenet of Ahimsa. Be kind and practice non-violence – physically, verbally and mentally. By giving an eco friendly gift (from cute places like here, here or here), you can practice kindness to our earth. Giving a handmade gift is also a fantastic way to give with more meaning and compassion. Think of all the time, love and energy of which a handmade item is comprised (you can find some good ideas here, here, here and of course, here). Or, you can DIY it and channel the crafter/baker/maker in you (look here, here and here for ideas)!
7. Have fun! ‘Tis the season for peace, love and joy. Be grateful for each and every day and for the loved ones that surround you. Make the most of the holidays by doing what you love, and by being with those you love.
What’s your tip for staying calm during the holidays/holiday shopping?
Namasté,
Nicole
