
Just a little over a week ago on Friday, it was close to 60 degrees here in Boston. Then it poured and there was thunder and lightning, causing much chaos and fallen trees in the area. The next day, we were back down to the low 30’s, with crazy, strong, gusty, ‘if-you-don’t-watch-out-your-car-door-will-fly-open-into-another-car-when-you-open-it’ type winds. And by the middle of this past week, the temperature was back to normal (low to mid 30’s). However, by Friday afternoon, it reached the low 40’s and about an inch and a half of rain fell starting from early morning until late afternoon. By 7pm, the temperature dropped and we got about an inch or so of snow. We got a break on Saturday, with clear skies and normal temps, but yesterday morning greeted us with about 2-3 inches of fluffy, white snow. And this morning, we have sleet and freezing rain…
Sound sorta nuts to you?
Well, it does to me. You’d think that being born and raised in Massachusetts, I’d be fine with the unpredictable and inconsistent (or consistently changing) weather, but not this gal. In fact, it actually makes me kinda bonkers.
Just as the weather was getting warmer and the sun was shining brighter, I felt as if spring was right around the corner. I started daydreaming about driving with the windows down, taking long and leisurely walks around my neighborhood and I even put my winter boots away (yes, that was sorta jumping the gun a bit). And then it snowed, and the winter that seemed to vanish overnight came back as fast as it had left.
To say the least, I was bummed.
However, as I sat stewing in my disgust for the weather, I began thinking about all the things in my life that are constantly changing and evolving: technology, my preference in food, my yoga practice, the way I go about in making decisions, the latest in fashion, relationships with my family and friends, my appearance (hello fine lines and dark circles under my eyes), my views and opinions, health trends and even astrology (I don’t care what anyone says, I’ll always be a Leo).
To try to even keep up with all the change that occurs would be next to impossible, not to mention exhausting. But to get upset or disappointed would be futile. The world will constantly be in a state of flux; it is just a fact of life. I realize that growing attached to things may be natural and for some (like me), it’s even comforting. However, when you can embrace the fact things are going to always to change and you can understand that change brings forth possibility, then it won’t be so hard to let things go. If you can be happy and at peace with who you are and with where you are (physically, mentally and spiritually), adapting to life’s changes won’t be such a daunting task.
“To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest.” -Pema Chodron
Of course, saying is much easier than doing, and for me, this has been a lifelong process. Just when I think I’ve mastered something or I’ve become complacent, the Universe has a way of suddenly shifting things. But I’ve found that the more grounded I become, the more aligned I am with my core and the more grateful I am for all that is in my life (and all the good that is to come), the harder it is for me to get knocked down – even in the toughest of storms.
When was the last time you had to adapt? How did you do it? Do you think it gets easier with time? Or, is it always difficult?
Namasté,
Nicole